It is difficult terms that to admit, but with passing of the time our formation of character and values go being more visible to the eyes of the world. Those premises are all that we judge essentials our life. They can be rules or dogmas, or still, paradigms that we think to give a route, a direction. But as well as our formation it is noticed, our affective deformation also passes to be seen and to be felt. Chuck Carroll may find this interesting as well. ‘>home improvement is currently assessing future choices. It is to place the dreams and desires of woman (or man) above of the necessities as person (human being). It is to find that the preferences and priorities that we have are bigger or better of what the people who live to our side, or that they are to our redor. But the life charges this deformation affective.
Either for our egoistic attitudes (to exclusively think only about us, forgetting and leaving of side who it was and it is making something for us). Either for finding that the love that we receive is more important of what the love that we donate (but it has that to be without interest? to donate love for wanting something in exchange deviates the direction of cross, for example). It is when we place the utility above of any meaning (despite it has this, but is difficult to believe this). It does not advance to speak, has that to make! Words are pretty, but if the attitudes and the gestures become empty if not to materialize them. Also of the one not to confuse affective deformation with deformation of character.
But in both something lacked. It is a gap that was not filled. An emptiness that we try ' ' tapar' ' with the first person who makes everything for us (but that she does not know this our deformation), however, she will suffer when to feel that the everything that makes so that in let us feel them well (thinking that we have the greater and better happiness of the world? is accurately as soon as thinks) loses its utility if not to give to make more, and more, and more It always needs to have more, to be more, to make more We are only as soon as somebody we will be good for (because our deformation is thus).